值得思考

亦舒说:

人们日常所犯最大的错误，

是对陌生人太客气，

而对亲密的人太苛刻，

把这个坏习惯改过来，

天下太平。

对啊。。。 有些人往往不明白这道理

尤其是女孩们

很多时候对朋友，外人都很好，很客气

可是偏偏对自己的亲人或男朋友会发脾气和无理取闹

女孩们给的解释一定是我在乎‘他’

所以我才发他脾气

换一个角度想

当你做错事时

你希望你疼爱的人或你喜欢的人会骂你，发你脾气吗？

当然 不 ！

换另一个说法

你希望别人如何对你

你就得如何对人

你如何对人

别人就如何对你

曾经的我也因这样的性格而错失很多东西

如今的我已明白这道理

也慢慢地改变

脾气坏不是借口

任性也不是借口

你以这两颗种子种在一段感情里

你就要有心理准备这会结到什么果

当然。。 你也可能会遇上一个对你千依百顺

而且几年以后也不会厌烦的人

可能还会结婚生孩子到老

可是。。这几率很低

你愿意拿你几年宝贵的青春去赌吗 ？

到最后可能还遍体鳞伤呢

何不做出一小步改变

控制好自己的情绪

让自己和身边的人都好过

♥ echoes of the rainbow

机缘巧合之下得到两张免费戏票

原本以为这会是一场很沉闷的戏
结果意外地让我爱上它
岁月神偷

由吴君如，任达华，李治延，钟绍图主演
戏中一家人任达华、吴君如、李治廷和钟绍图都有入围
我个人觉得弟弟的演出比哥哥好
可是无可否认
哥哥长得蛮帅的
我们都觉得他有点像王力宏

这套戏主要是亲情挂帅
讲述岁月才是人生里的最大小偷，
它会偷走亲人，带走美好
手法高明，不留痕迹

个人蛮喜欢几幕
因为贫穷，
哥哥面对女友家的豪宅时神情黯然，
弟弟无法一个人独享一盒月饼时嚎啕大哭，
爸爸不惜当掉陪伴多年的婚戒
让哥哥输上新鲜血液
而妈妈轻轻抚摸爸爸手指上深深的戒痕，
那几幕深深的刻在我的心里
因为我知道环境不好时的无奈

之前我会问自己
为什么我的人生不能一帆风顺
可是看了这套戏后有很大的感触
突然发觉自己是多么的幸福
每年中秋节都有月饼吃
每个星期都能看一场戏
有幸的看过天空出现两道彩虹
身边的人都健健康康
最起码我现在每天吃得饱，穿得暖

给那些目前面对困难，感到迷惘的朋友

“鞋”字半边“难（難）”，亦有半边“佳”

就像吴君如饰演的母亲常说的那样，
“一步难，一步佳；难一步，佳一步”
做人总要信
有一天会好
下一个会更好!

Bless

alright.....

i believe God wants me to know that
i am blessed.
Sometimes i will think i have challenges,

but i have so many blessings.

Sometimes it takes only a moment of conscious

effort to recognize those blessings.

Once we focus on the gifts instead of the problems,

our whole perspective will change

and we will see blessings everywhere.

♥ Saturday night

Dinner at Ho Ma's house.
yum yum ~
Look, chocolate rabbits.
hehe..
feel bored while waiting for dessert,
so just captured for fun. :P

main course - Seafood Paella
cooked by Eve.
mmmm... looks yummy, right

Appetizer - citrus + bacon + watercress
i won't forget the most important thing - olive oil.

looks tempting, right..

our seafood Paella.

everyone needs to pose with the food.
1st Ho Ma.
she required more photos.
she said we cannot lose to the 'Aussie gang' !
funny Ho Ma.
hahaha...

2nd Eve
'chef of the night'
busy taking photo too !

3rd Rex
aaw.... come on..
seems like being forced to eat that. :P

4th ching
never seen him be serious while taking photo !

5th ey3ng
my favourite posing. :D

Summer pudding with strawberry ice cream.
made by Eve.
she's sooo talented !

It is a british dessert made of sliced white bread.
aww... her summer pudding is perfect !!

♥ Lake Tekapo

Heading to Lake Tekapo.
Lake Tekapo is one of the major lakes of
central south island of New Zealand.
The lake and the surrounding mountains offer supreme scenery
and some landmarks worth visiting.

my darling.
aww... he looks good in this picture.
pose like korean superstar.
hahaha...

Watson & me at Mt John.
Mt John is a large hill overlooking Lake Tekapo,
just a short drive from the town.

According to Fion, in this picture,
looks like he's gonna eat me up and
i'm just like a little helpless rabbit.
ya... i have a same feeling too. haha..

Its my first time seeing snow.
Wet & cold.
i really dont expect it to be so wet.

nice scenery with nice model :P


********

Preparing our dinner.
we're fully utilized the kitchen. :D

yea ~ Iron chefs

everyone was so serious !
haha...

we planned to cincai eat that night.
but .... ended up with THIS !

rosemary blackpepper steak +
chinggy mashed potato +
yummy salad.


**********

The next day.
view from balcony

Peppers bluewater resort
Our mountain view villa.
love it so much ~

Church of the Good Shepherd.

headed to Astro Cafe again to taste their coffee.

The Astro cafe is fully enclosed in glass.

Mt John observatory at Lake Tekapo.
even if not touring the observatory,
the views and the cafe can be worth a visit.

Winter views over Lake Tekapo

chinggy & ey3ng

eve & Uncle Rex.

once in a life - Bungy

Kawarau Bridge Bungy-

home to the world's first and most famous of leaps.

43m above the Kawarau River
Price - $175 nzd (excluded photos & video)

alright... he wants me say hi to the camera.

i looked down,
it was a long way down......

here you can Bungy forwards,

backwards, by yourself, or with a friend.......

it's up to you.

It's also the only Bungy in Queenstown

where you can choose to bob above the water,

touch it, or get fully immersed.

well.. it's winter when i was there,

so it's impossible to immerse myself in water.

:P

Done.
i just felt wee wang wang after i jumped.
it was a wonderful experience falling.
once is enough.
:P

♥ 6 months.

♡半周年纪念 ♡

没有特别的庆祝
因为最近都玩太多了！
况且前两天才帮我庆祝完生日
我还当着他面买
他手上那个星巴克reusable cup给他.
他想要了很久的哦.
哈哈....
拿那个杯去星巴克
可享有80仙的折扣.
我们每个星期都有去光顾
算起来也蛮划的，
迟早会回本 ！
而且蛮环保的.
go green.. oh yea~
:)

这个就是他送我的咯！
还要过了一天才记得给我
前一个月其实已经和他说了我要这个
:P
本来以为他会送这给我当生日礼物
哈哈.....

来了这里，皮肤变得更差
差不多每天都长豆豆.
唯一一个好处就是变白咯
白到每个人以为我是从中国来的.
从网上看到它们(TBS-Tea Tree series)
的评语蛮不错的
现在差不多有完整套了
希望一个月后我的脸有改善咯.
:)