原来

原来我不相信破镜重圆、重新开始。。。
原来当信任已不再存在， 再稳固的感情也会随之而破。
原来自己一手种的因，会得这样的果 。
原来当我做决定时，我很优柔寡断。
原来我一直都懂我在放纵自己。
原来真的需要沟通、体谅、包容与自制。
原来我愿意付出，也会冒险。
原来一切都需要时间。
原来我很舍不得你们。
原来爱情是需要冲动的。。

原来。。。。
思想影响行为，
行为影响习惯，
习惯影响性格，
性格影响命运。
原来。。。

1~有些事，我們明知道是錯的，也要去堅持，因為不甘心;

有些人，我們明知道是愛的，也要去放棄，因為沒結局；
有時候，我們明知道沒路了，卻還在前行，因為習慣了。

2~以為蒙上了眼睛，就可以看不見這個世界；
以為摀住了耳朵，就可以聽不到所有的煩惱；
以為腳步停了下來，心就可以不再遠行；
以為需要的愛情，只是一個擁抱~可是你心中的真愛是在這 裡嗎？

3~那些已經犯過的錯誤，有一些是因為來不及，有一些是 因為刻意躲避， 更多的時候是茫然地站到了一邊。我們就這樣錯了一次又一次，卻從不曉得從中汲取教訓，做一些反省或是努力補救。

4~你不知道我在想你，是因為你不愛我，我明明知道你不 想我，卻還愛你，是因為我太傻。也許有時候，逃避不是因為害怕去面對什麼，而是在等待什麼。

5~天空沒有翅膀的痕跡，但鳥兒已經飛過；
心裡沒有被刀子割過，但疼痛卻那麼清晰。
這些胸口裡最柔軟的地方，被愛人傷害過的傷口，遠比那些 肢體所受的傷害來得犀利，而且只有時間，才能夠治癒。

6~很多人，因為寂寞而錯愛了一人，但更多的人，因為錯 愛一人，而寂寞一生。我們可以彼此相愛，卻注定了無法相守。不是我不夠愛你，只是我不敢肯定，這愛~是不是最正確的。

7~如果背叛是一種勇氣，那麼接受背叛則需要一種更大的 勇氣。
前者只需要有足夠的勇敢就可以，又或許只是一時衝動，
而後者考驗的卻是寬容的程度，絕非衝動那麼簡單，需要的唯有時間。

8~生命無法用來證明愛情，就像我們無法證明自己可以不 再相信愛情。
在這個城市裡，誠如勞力士是物質的奢侈品，愛情則是精神上的奢侈品。可是生命脆弱無比，根本沒辦法承受那麼多的奢侈。

9~人最大的困難是認識自己，最容易的也是認識自己。
很多時候，我們認不清自己，只因為我們把自己放在了一個 錯誤的位置，給了自己一個錯覺。所以，不怕前路坎坷，只怕從一開始就走錯了方向。

10~生活在一個城市裡，或者愛一個人，又或者做某件事 ，時間久了，就會覺得厭倦，就會有一種想要逃離的衝動。也許不是厭倦了這個城市、愛的人、堅持的事，只是給不了自己堅持下去的勇氣。

11~多少次又多少次，回憶把生活劃成一個圈，而我們在 原地轉了無數次，無法解脫。總是希望回到最初相識的地點，如果能夠再一次選擇的話，以為可以愛得更單純。

12~如果你明明知道這個故事的結局，你或者選擇說出來 ，或者裝作不知道，萬不要欲言又止。有時候留給別人的傷害，選擇沉默比選擇坦白要痛多了。

Someone

Once in a while

someone comes along,

someone who just naturally makes

everyone feel a little happier,

a little more alive to life.

you've been that someone to me.

you've given me a new perspective

on a lot of things - including myself.

there are things you've said to me

i'll always remenber

and ways you've helped me

i'll never forget.

the times we spend together

are always good times

that leave me looking forward to the next time.

So thanks for being the wonderful person you are.

you're an inspiration to me,

and i'm very glad and grateful that you've come into my life.

so close yet so far

关系能在一秒 之间,

变得不再是你和我,

而是 '我们'.

也能在一秒 之间,

变回我 '自己'.

命运，就放桌上，

地球仪，正旋动.

找个点，凭直觉按下去，

可以按住你吗?

Examination !!

Now i know what is fully utilize..

this is a restricted notes examination.

The specified notes we are allowed to bring in are

the case study plus two pages (four sides) of notes.

p/s: it must be written notes.

honestly, 3 hours is not enough for us..

there is a lot of things need to write.

Feel pity to one of our classmates.

i think she doesn't know it must be written notes.

she brings in TYPED notes &

of course it is not allowed.

God bless her !!

Two more days will be my LAST paper.

and Thanks God it is course file.

i like this sentence

"u have strategic marketing, i have strategic studying.

u have market targeting, chapters targeting i'm doing, lol " (Chou,2010).

Good Luck to all UNN year 3 sem 2 students !!

Penang Trip

I went to Penang on the 2nd of January and

I should have blog about it earlier.

Sorry for me to take such a long time for me

post it up here. (caused by laziness)

Our journey began at 4.30 am in the morning.

We arrived Bukit Merah at around 8.30 am and

we took this opportunity to have a wonderful time at the Waterpark.

Not surprisingly, not many Chinese visitors there.

They were playing Monopoly.

there are not much water activities.

i think the most interesting is the one with a big curve.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xkzx1NiCYcA

you can view from this link.

Then we decided to head to Penang to have our lunch.

we had our lunch in Penang Road.

erm.. didnt take any photo while having our lunch.

according to Cindy, actually it is famous with their cendol only.

But we feel that their Laksa is delicious

and of course, their cendol is nice too!

We stayed at Flamingo Hotel.

Hotel swimming pool.

Then we had our dinner at Bukit Genting Hill.

This place is famous with their Yummy Thai Food.

Seriously, the food there are really nice.

i strongly recommend their Otak-otak.

The road uphill and downhill is pretty steep and dark.

* be careful when driving

The next day, itinerary was to visit Kek Lok Si temple.

Yu & Rita (1985)

Eyeng (1987)

Trav, Ching, Gary (1988)

Terry & Kwong (1989)

Suppose to have our dinner at Gurney Drive Hawker Center.

But it's raining.

Thus, we changed to the hawker stalls at Mecalister Road,

which is located beside the Sunway Hotel.

Finally we took some photos before we finished the food.

A big thank you to our tour guide, Mr Yu and his friends.

Enjoyed every moment and realized a lot of stuffs

which are not that appropriate to post up in my blog.

It's gonna be something worth cherished and learned in my life.

I know, and I understand.

感情

你相信‘Mr.Right’d的存在吗？也就是说理想的伴侣真的就那么一个吗？往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易不知所措, 就是因为害怕一时做错决定，造成终生的遗憾。

诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说：“此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个认适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇见哪一个，如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人 发展出互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友.但若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇、变心，直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一 位拥有稳固的深情，才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束。。。”

爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要‘际遇’，是上天的安排，但是‘持续的爱一个人’就要靠‘努力’。在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体量、包容与 自制（面临诱惑有所自制）。有许多人总是为‘际遇’所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键，所以不要去追 问到底谁才是我的Mr.Right，而是要问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的Mr.Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的，而活在犹疑于遗憾当中，这不就是许多‘爱情虚无症’的遭遇与心态吗？